i always know my mum had abortion before me .. but what i thought is that it is a sister.. dunno where i get e thought but anyway.. my mum aborted it at 2 month.. so dun really know it a guy or gal.. i only thought so from stuff that my mum say.. then turned out.. yesterday den i know it is a brother.. ie a guy..my mum say ask from medium one..

hmm.. my granny was not very well for this period of time le.. as in 1 leg in e graveyard already.. den she can actually see stuff from e other world le.. so actually at e stage of passing on le.. she say she can see her parents ..her husband and aunts and so on.. den juz yesterday.. she was saying to my 4thaunt that a grandchild had give birth..(grandchild is my batch..ya..) den my 4th aunt say which grandchild.. on earth presently only got 1 whose is pregnant but havent give birth.. den my granny say .. ar.. mei mei (my mum) son and ah moi(1st aunt) daughter at below us.. (how to say.. my parents did rituals for them and got them married.. something like that.. den my 1st aunt child at 6 month den miscarried) .. den my 4th aunt say ah moi daughter pretty not.. my granny say pretty.. very fair.. den my 4th aunt ask den meimei son good looking not.. my granny say yes.. got big eyes.. like meimei..haha.. den say they staying at a house behind e old house ...

so do u believe? firstly.. can't really call them human.. coz they are actually "it" ? coz they died even before born.. and how come they know which is their granny.. coz my mum had found this biological mother like 7 years ago only.. so "him" cant really know it.. and i thought time stops for them when they die.. so they will actually be like at foetus stage.. how come they can grow? and have a look they have now?? do they really grow and e old house is already tear down.. so if they are staying there.. it really means time stop for them.. and when humans do rituals for them ..they actually get married down there? haha..i know like when we pray to ancestors.. we have to tell them we are who who who.. coz they stop at that time.. they dunno they are die and how long had pass..

depends on u really believe it or juz know and take it with a pinch of salt..

i dunno.....