Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Been going in and out of cits and library recently.. cits is a place to use computer and print stuff.. and library.. ya use computer, print stuff and photocopy stuff.. nearly everyday also got stuff to print.. But realised something recently.. some ntu guys do have their little little small gentleman-ness..haha.. why do i say tt.. coz this few days.. when i go in and out of cits or lib.. it juz happened tt there is a guy going in or out before me.. and will open the door let me walk 1st..haha.. i mean.. sure this kinda stuff is what guys should do.. but it still feels weird.. haha.. and i met 3 such weird stuff in 2 days..haha

1st was yesterday when i go to cits.. and i was abt to reach the door .. a guy open the door and was abt to walk out.. den he move backwards.. and allow me to walk in 1st.. haha.. so funny.. coz he already almost at the door and almost out..haha.. i walk in and muttered thanks.. coz it does feel awkward..haha

den after tt.. i was thinking.. do all guys do tt.. den it really happened again when i walk out..tt's the 2nd time.. this time round.. even weirder.. e guy reach the door 1st before me.. he wanna go out also.. den he stand there holding the door for me.. to walk 1st.. and the thing is.. i am like 3m behind him? and 3m is quite a large distance.. haha.. if i am the guy.. i walk out 1st..haha.. maybe i am not used to like tt..haha.. i mean guys in our course i have yet to see like tt..haha..

and juz now was the 3rd time..at hss lib the guy was walking in.. and i was walking out.. and he hold the door for me..haha.. was laughing inside me coz i was counting the no. of times le as i walk out..haha.. den i say thanks .. and the guy actually say welcome back..haha..even weirder..haha..

i guess this kind non-verbal communication(i had a module on communication this sem and they talk a lot abt this..haha) is getting lesser and lesser tt why once a well.. its feels good..but weird..haha.. i told my mum.. and she say tt's what guys suppose to do .. being a gentleman.. but my dad never did those for her before..haha

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