It's always heartwarming to see the grandparents taking care of the grandchildren.. playing with them.. bring them to buy toys.. bring them to eat..

Juz the other day.. i saw a chinese looking grandfather with his malayish-indian looking granddaughter at banquet at Jp.. the little girl was eating the dessert happily while the grandfather looks so happy taking care of his granddaughter..

But when the child grow up, will she still remember it? will she still remember that her grandfather had part a big role in her life? will she still feel the warmth?

Sadly for me.. i dun remember it .. =(

My parents said that my grandfather dotes me a lot when i was young.. buy me candies and many other stuff.. my grandfather had bring me to primary school everyday.. buying me candies and many other stuff.. and its really sad for me to say that i dun feel close to him or my grandmother.. And on top of it.. they juz stayed next door to me.. the last time i went over is like 2 months ago...

i can say that all my cousins aint close to my grandparents.. maybe there is one or two.. but confirm not all .. and the one or two tt were close to my grandparents had already drift apart from my grandparents coz they had grown up and had their own family ..
All the cousins used to come over to my grandparents house every other weekend.. and i really means " used to " .. Now they only come during special occasion like chi new yr.. grandfather birthday.. grandmother birthday.. and even if they come.. they also juz sit there and talk among the cousins themselves.. none of them care to talk to our grandparents..

One word : SAD.

My grandfather havent been on the good side of health recently.. he had been going in and out of the hospital since the start of the year.. and there was like only once when all the cousin when to visit him in the hospital.. why? juz because he is in ICU and was in critical situation then..

Now..He's is in hospital again.. heard my parents said that he is in very bad situation now.. that's why my parents are now in the hospital..

i hope everything is well for him..