Even though friends are not for forever.. I believe that friends should be open and honest to each other.. instead of talking behind one’s back. Of course, friction tend to arise when a group of friends are together for a long time, coz no one is similar in e way of doing things or anything, hence there be agreements or disagreements.
Saying out to e person.. I think is better den talking behind e person’s back. The degree of hurt to e person will be of a huge difference. That’s why I always speaks what I think and not hold back. Isn’t that wat good friends supposed to be like? If everyone is holding back stuff from each other.. I dun think they are friends anymore. All of them are wearing masks.. “fake” .. in fact .. strangers will be better den those whom called are good friends coz at least strangers say what they mean and not hold back anything and will not even backstab u coz they dunno u at all.. a "fake" friendship will not last..
And friends say out each other faults and pardon each other mistakes to enable positive changes in each other. That’s why it is important once in a while to do some reflection among friends.. to strengthen e friendship. i am glad i do have a few of e closest friends around me instead of fake or surface friends.. and i feel sad for those who had a large group of friends but no close friends at all.. and worst if u dun have any friends.. like some ppl in my course..
Well.. I still believe that friends should open up and clarify things instead of talking behind one’s back. And it doesn’t matter if I include e names of my friends or protect them in my blog coz these are things happening around me.. if good stuff u can include their names .. so why can’t for unpleasant things? its even childish to do that.. to think that e person u are writing abt dunno u are writing abt them.. its worst den talking behind one’s back…
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